Grief is not something you complete. It’s a new dimension of self.
But the Cheshire cat had a very good point: tell me where you want to go, otherwise, I’ll tell you where you go. Basically, life will decide for you if you don’t decide for yourself.
I imagine emotional triggers like waves crashing over me in a rough ocean. I’m swimming in a beach, somewhere with warm water and white sand. The water is just deep enough for my feet to reach the bottom. I float like a buoy, in rhythm with the water.
You ever read a quote that really sticks to you? That helps you make big decisions in your life? This quote is that for me. I remember the first time I read it was on Tumblr. I was finishing up University and anxiously debating whether or not I should move to China for three months. […]
I genuinely feel like a different human now that I have been living in Beijing for almost 2 years. It’s changed everything.